Love him with faith. Do not look at the length of his beard; faith is not in the beard. Look at his kindness; he will love and defend you as his faith dictates. He will remember you as he remembers prayer and will ask God in every prayer to have you. He will fast from every other woman for you. He will purify his eyes if you wish and will ask God to be with you in paradise if he cannot reach you in this world. Do not shake his hand, make yourself like paradise, and can a person reach paradise without hardship?